The first is biological : if the headache has become a speck, the reality of the facts is there are monthly periods in which women find it more difficult not only to seek pleasure, but also to let go and enjoy the moment. If the man is moved not only by attraction, but also by much more instinctual issues, in fact the woman must be accountable to waves of hormones that go up and down.
The second explanation, on the other hand, has to do with the psyche and here society (patriarchal) and again hormones (different from those of the first) come into play.
This is why women have less desire to have sex
Desire follows cycles
Women have up to a hundred times less testosterone than men. Not only. Women have a cyclical sexual desire, which follows the menstrual cycle and which varies according to the various stages of ovulation and age.During the ovulation phase, for example, testosterone is produced and this hormone activates arousal.Instead the menopausal stage is the one that seems most associated with a marked decline in desire.
The reason is easy to understand: the female body pushes the woman to have sex when she is most fertile.
Women are subjected to a different kind of stress
Stress also affects sexual desire. And net of commendable family balances, there is no doubt that women cover various roles in which they feel invested with a strong responsibility and this often causes physical and mental energy to decrease. Stress causes increased production of cortisol and the higher the level, the more sexual desire will be reduced. Men also suffer from stress, but thanks to the constantly produced testosterone it has no repercussions on the sexual side.
We think more about the couple relationship
A question not to be overlooked concerns the relationship of the couple. Women are by their nature more attentive to the dynamics they are experiencing and how they are with their partner. They live the relationship with mental analysis and so the thoughts have an impact on sex in a much more marked way, for this reason the intimate sphere can often become an alarm bell.