Long distance relationships need care and goodwill to work. Whether they become so due to a move or are born like this due to the most casual coincidences, long distance relationships need a lot of care and some precautions in order to work. More than all relationships in general already require.Communication and creativity are the basis from which to keep the flame alive despite the kilometers and perhaps a different time zone. Long distance relationships need care and goodwill to work. Here are some rules to follow to make a long-distance relationship work.
Let’s talk about some guidelines to make long distance relationships work.
1. Always be clear about the Why
Both partners must always be clear about why they are apart. Whether it is to pursue a work goal, for a family need or for personal growth, this will help you face difficult moments.Talk about it regularly, merge individual goals into a shared dream.It will remind you why you are apart and where you are going together .
2. Communicate
It’s not just about telling each other about your day, share ups and downs, celebrate victories together and share your anxieties. Explore different languages, phone calls, messages, voice notes, even handwritten letters, don’t skimp, talk and talk about everything, to avoid misunderstandings, doubts and unnecessary suffering. Your communication must be a raging river, not a stagnant lake. Keep it open, honest and always evolving.
3. Make room for each other
Create the right balance between your daily life and your long-distance relationship both deserve your presence. Cultivate hobbies and friendships and take advantage of where you are to grow as a person.But at the same time, you also share quality time and experiences with the person you love from a distance not only by chatting but perhaps simultaneously watching a film or playing online.
How to manage jealousy in long distance relationships
Being part of each other’s lives, despite the distance, requires creativity and willpower , explains Lauren, Explore new ways to do it, sharing virtual experiences, hobbies or thinking of gestures that can surprise the other.
This will not only maintain the bond, but add depth and vibrancy to the relationship. Sharing experiences, however distant, will give you the sense of being closer.Jealousy is part of the package, but instead of avoiding it, recognize and validate it. Try to understand where your jealousy comes from, it can come from an event in the past, from unsatisfied needs or from a lack of self-esteem. Understanding where it comes from will allow you to make sense of it and regain confidence in your story.
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