A quick morning quickie can be so enjoyable and energising that you will be able to spin at high speed all day. But this is not its only advantage.
Megan Fleming, a New York-based sex and relationship therapist, points out 5 reasons why you should make love before the first cup of coffee.
1. You’re rested and energetic
After long working days, usually late at night, it’s time to cuddle. But not everyone can really get into the mood at this time, as we can be tired and even tense due to the events of the whole day, which are not easy to leave behind. Women’s brains are not always ready for a bone-shaking orgasm.
It is much easier to relax after 8 hours of stress-free rest, right when you wake up, when you haven’t read the news of the day, you don’t think about what tragedies have happened in the world, and the meeting in the afternoon seems beneficially far away. What’s more, you and your partner are snuggled up in bed next to each other early in the morning anyway. Why not use and optimize this time.?
2. Male hormones in the sky
Your partner may perform better on Tuesday morning than on Saturday night. Why? Men produce more testosterone in the morning, so they are more sexually heated and have a higher libido. Having sex after waking up gives you a chance to live in the moment and hopefully focus more on your pleasure.
3. Your brain is still covered with a beneficial fog
When we wake up, most of us are not ready to go, it usually takes a few minutes before we can operate at full throttle. This in-between period is the perfect time to make love. Our brains are still half offline, we’re not thinking about 100 things we have to do that day, so we can really get into the game. So the next time you wake up, don’t reflexively reach for your phone to check your work emails or what happened last night Rather, enjoy yourself and each other before the more responsible part of the day even begins.
4. You can start the day with a smile
No matter what time of day we are, orgasm releases feel-good neurotransmitters in our brains, as well as chemicals like oxytocin, also known as the love or happiness hormone.
If you benefit from these natural doping agents early in the morning, you will promote a good mood throughout your day and a positive outlook on life.
5. It helps to spice up the usual schedule
Somewhere deep in the collective subconscious, sex is a nocturnal activity. In reality, however, the night is often the most inconvenient time, especially if the partners want to go to bed at different rhythms, or their daily schedule is so tiring that they really choose the horizontal position just for the sake of sleep. Morning sex is therefore a new opportunity to experience mutual pleasure in a different way and to break the routine. After all, when you discover new things or change established habits, then living together doesn’t seem like a script, and you won’t get bored of each other.