Each of us would like to find the perfect partner, the one ready to share his whole world with us: but how to understand if he is the right person for us? How do you recognize it?
Perfect relationships don’t just happen it takes continuous work and attention to carry on a love story, even one with true great love.
However, there are some signs that can help us understand if the one we have next to is the right person. For example: how much is he willing to sacrifice for you? Do you often argue? Do your interests coincide?Some relationship experts have identified 10 signs to understand if the person you’re with is the right one for you.
Here they are.
1. You manage to find compromises that work for both of you
The key to any successful relationship is compromise .Every relationship, some more, some less, is a compromise between the individual needs of the people involved. Indeed, it is wrong to expect to always be perfectly aligned or agree on everything. But how well you are able to compromise and negotiate with your partner is a key indicator of how well suited you are to each other. If you find it easy to meet in the middle when you disagree on something, then know that yours could be the right partner.
2. Accepts you for who you are
The right person will reassure you, compliment you and let you know how wonderful you are*. In other words, she will accept you for who you are, with all your strengths and weaknesses . Let go of people who constantly question your thoughts and appearance – it’s a clear sign that something is wrong.
A good partner wants you to be happy and never doubt you.
3. Fight, but in a healthy way
Arguments aren’t necessarily a bad thing in a relationship. In fact, depending on how you handle them, they can be an integral part of a romance’s longevity.With the right person, you should be able to express opposing or different viewpoints without causing a break or rift in the relationship.
Healthy arguing then means learning to validate each other’s perspectives, even if they don’t necessarily match ours.
4. You have similar core values
You don’t have to have exactly the same interests as your partner. In fact, sometimes it helps to have completely different ones: it gives you something to talk about.But if you want a long-term relationship with someone, you need to make sure you’re on the same page in terms of life goals and core values.
Whether it’s your views on having children, where you would like to live or simply the lifestyle you would like to have. Whatever it is, if it’s important to you, it should be important to your partner as well.
5. The perfect partner is a good listener
A good partner will listen carefully to everything you have to say, no matter how boring it may seem. The ability to listen to each other and to give the other person space to feel heard, even if the content of the discussion is not of interest to us as an individual, demonstrates to that person that they are worthy of our time and attention.
6. Don’t be afraid to say what’s on your mind
When you have found the perfect partner, there is no judgment whatsoever in the relationship. Or at least there shouldn’t be. You should feel free to be yourself and show all sides of your personality. If you have something in mind, feel free to talk about it. In a healthy relationship, your partner will listen to you without judgment or prejudice. 
7. The physical chemistry between you two is palpable
So much so that other people comment on how awesome you two are together. To understand if he/she is the right person for you, you also need to ask yourself about the physical chemistry that attracts you to each other.So much so that other people comment on how awesome you two are together.
If, beyond the sparks under the sheets, just holding hands fills your heart with joy, even after so many years spent together, then hold on to this person.
8. Your family and friends love it
It might seem obvious, but if your loved ones get along with the person you’re dating, that’s usually a good sign.Family and friends will probably know you better than you know yourself. So it’s normal for them to be protective and initially suspicious of the people you date.
If they are your partner’s biggest fans, then know that you picked the right one.
9. You are at the center of his/her world
There’s nothing worse than being in the middle of a conversation with your partner only to notice they’re looking at Instagram. We are so often distracted by technology, screens and notifications. But attention to the other plays an important role in forming meaningful connections. The perfect partner will be fully present ; which proves one’s worth to that person.
10. Shows you affection with small attentions
A gesture doesn’t have to be grand to be romantic. In fact, sometimes it’s the small gestures that mean the most.Small gestures warm the heart of those who receive them. And it is precisely the daily attentions that make us understand how much a partner cares about us and our happiness.