Sharing love desires is essential how to do it and communicate to your partner what you need (in the right way)
Love desires and fantasies represent an important part of the intimate sphere of each of us. They offer the opportunity to experiment, to experience sex in a full and fulfilling way, but also to make yourself better known by the partner, increasing the complicity of the couple. But what to do when the other person the one we love on and off the sheets doesn’t share some sensual desires with us?
Sincerity and Tact find the right way
Sharing your love fantasies is an important step in establishing a deep connection in the couple, laying the foundations for a more solid relationship and why not for a night of passion. Talking about how you feel and what you want can in fact be the key to increasing complicity and intimacy with your partner.
If you are convinced that the other person may not like your sexual desires, try to approach the issue step by step. In fact, asking hot questions could cause embarrassment or even cause a quarrel, touching sore points in the couple’s relationship. First learn to ask questions the right way, experience the power of an open and sincere dialogue. After the initial embarrassment and the fear eliminated, you will be able to tell yourself to your partner and find a meeting point with him to live a more fulfilling s*x life.
Create love fantasies as a couple
Is your partner reluctant to share their se**al fantasies and doesn’t seem interested in yours? Try to create couple desires that allow you to open up to each other, create a kind of playful collaboration based on passion and sensuality, exploring the potential of your fantasies.
In the beginning, proceed gradually, one step after another. For example, you could share insights from previous love making experiences with each other, explaining what might please and turn you on in the future. You will immediately realize that just sharing se**al fantasies freely can be a powerful aphrodisiac. If you feel embarrassed at first, try joking about it, involving your partner, before moving on to being serious.
The fundamental ingredient in this case is complicity. In fact, letting go requires a strong commitment that must come from both. These elements must be combined with spontaneity and the desire to create a real connection. For example, try some small, such as a role-playing game or a new situation. In fact, intimate moments are ideal for communicating what you want and feel. During love making, whispered phrases and small messages can be a way to warm up the atmosphere, but also to say what you think.
Questions to ignite fantasies
So se**al fantasies within a couple are essential, to turn them on, learn to ask yourself the right questions. In bed, accomplices, exchange confidences to fuel desire and understand each other better.
How many and which positions have you tried
Sex positions are a very useful starting point to add some spice to your relationship. Ask your partner about his past experiences with her, trying to figure out which position she prefers and how she would like to experience the relationship in bed. More daring or sweet, adventurous or romantic?
Have you ever seen a adult movie
Often those who are in a couple tend to watch po** alone, without involving the partner. Why, on the contrary, not share this aspect with the other? The category and the particularities chosen can in fact reveal a lot about us and our partner. Finding out what kind of po** he watches may allow you to learn about his fantasies (and reveal yours).
What do you think about when you mast***ate
Autoeroticism is a se**al practice that allows us to express ourselves freely. When we mast***ate we feel free to express ourselves, giving space to the imagination and learning about our body. Asking questions about auto-eroticism could therefore be essential to reveal what you want and understand what the other wants.