Some bedroom habits just don’t sit well with our partners. Here are the things men hate about women in bed.
It is customary to think that mistakes in bed are mostly attributable to the male gender. But is it really like this or is it like this only because we tell each other and we never bother to understand which of our attitudes can be (badly) tolerated by the partner ?
According to survey of men to figure out what things the women they’ve slept with have done that they hated. Here we’ll discuss the worst.
1. The high notes of pleasure if there are other people in the house
Being able to express pleasure which is undoubtedly a positive thing, but moans of pleasure, if there are other people in the house (whether roommates or, even worse, family members), stop being a positive sign in your head and start to be a potential problem.
The only result will be embarrassment and, at worst, inhibition. Therefore, if you are not alone in the house , it would be better to limit the volume.
2. Think only of your own pleasure
It seems like a contradiction imagined in the feminine , but apparently it is a problem that exists. Being aware of what we like and what we don’t like in bed is essential, Wishing to reach the apex also by suggesting the right moves from our partner too. Forgetting that you’re not alone in bed, however, is another matter.
He is not an accessory dedicated exclusively to achieving our pleasure and it would be good to show him what we like, but also to dedicate ourselves to understanding what he likes (or dislikes).
3. Always follow the same script
Slipping into routine is all too easy, especially if you’ve been together for a long time.
Ok, by now you know what he likes and what we like, as well as which positions we like best, but repeating them over and over in an almost identical way makes relationships boring, predictable and, consequently, not at all stimulating.
On the other hand, the novelty factor is essential to keep the desire alive .Being creative and committing to trying new things in the bedroom will make our partners happy as well as ourselves.
4. Track him down after the report
Most of us like to stay in bed longer or shorter after sex to be pampered. Now, if for some it is a pleasure, for others it is torture, because they feel the need and the need for physical space.
To understand which category of boy you are dealing with, just read the non-verbal signals if he seeks your contact at the end of the relationship, he will like to be hugged. Conversely, if you perceive signs of impatience it is better not to insist he needs to get away.
Are caresses and kisses indispensable after sex.?
Then perhaps you should find a more like-minded partner.
5. Participate as spectators only
During the different encounters in the bedroom, you can decide to have more or less passivity. If sometimes it is pleasant to have the ‘power’, in other cases you prefer to grant a more active role to your partner.
What is not at all exciting to any man, is the situation where you lie like a starfish stunned and let him do all the work. Not even tiredness or having something else on your mind can be considered valid excuses.
Once you decide to go to bed with someone, you should dedicate ourselves to this moment fully, striving to put aside everything else.
Otherwise it is better to postpone for another time.
6. Say when the report should end
There are guys who objectively endure very little before reaching the top. And others that continue for a very long time.
Who hasn’t wanted to set the pace with some suggestions (like “wait!” or “come on, now!”)?
Here, be careful not to overdo it by demanding control of his own pleasure; it’s not pleasant for anyone to feel pressured in a moment that should be spontaneous.
7. Leaving wounds and marks on the skin
Scratching, biting and spanking can all be part of bedtime play. And getting caught up in some aggressive demonstration of the pleasure we’re feeling, in some cases, can be exciting.
The important thing, however, is not to translate these gestures into red marks and wounds , because visible scratches or bruises on the body can be really embarrassing once you leave the bedroom.
8. Use the mobile
Smartphone addiction has reached such a point that it is also a problem in the bedroom. And rushing to look at the screen right after sex has the effect of breaking all the magic.
We use our phones pretty much everywhere, you’re going to have to leave your phones out of the bed at least.
The advice is to turn them off and or put them in another room, so both you and your partner can also enjoy the moment after sex without any kind of distraction.
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